Establish healthy rules for disagreement. Workshop exercises: 1) List behaviors that make conflict unsafe or unproductive. 2) Create five fair-fighting rules. 3) Role-play a disagreement using the rules. 4) Choose a repair phrase such as Can we start again?
Use Ephesians 4:26-29. Prohibit contempt, intimidation, threats, violence, name-calling, and involving children as messengers or allies.